I am interested to see the replies to this question:
Why do you think some people have children but no grandchildren? Not even one. Especially In circumstances where there aren’t many boundaries to parenthood and multiple siblings?
I made a conscious to not have any kids because of health issues and I wanted to end the inter-generation trauma once and for all.
My siblings didn’t have kids but wanted them. They’re in their mid 50s now so it is highly unlikely to happen now. It’s almost like they subconsciously sabotaged every opportunity. They’re Gen X so it was still affordable to do the marriage and kids thing, and very much expected.
It’s like evolution came along and stopped history repeating.
Some people have many generations of #trauma/ #dysfunction and keep on reproducing. In most cases I’ve observed, nothing changes for the better. Why us and not them?
Would be interested to hear your thoughts. Please be kind. I’m currently stuck with said parents and can’t get out thanks to lack of government services and help.
My father is a #narcissist with #psychopathic tendencies (diagnosed by 2 professionals) while my mother stated off is a victim of his crap but eventually became a partner in crime. She at least has some #empathy but they are pretty miserable people. They of course have no idea why this has happened.
Side note: If you are able to offer #housing or #advocacy to help a very ill person get out of here and finally allow me to move forward in life, I would be more than grateful ( I have been looking for an #advocate and and some where to live for soo long sooo long (I mean years) but no luck.They keep kicking me back & the only way is out.
A lot of my health problems would be helped by not being in such an awful environment.
P.S. This my second attempt at this post so I likely left things out. (Masto chewed it up
) Hope it makes sense.
Also not be able to reply to everyone because running on very limited energy. Interested in your opinions though and am reading.
For more info, here’s an article about me: https://t.co/f1vB5pXoK6