Pain caused you to make choices.
You may look back at those choices and regret them because it's not the choice that you would make now.
Can you see what that alone is showing you?
It's showing you growth, healing, understanding, and the opportunity for acceptance.
You can recognize the pain of that younger version of you. You can see that they made choices based on that pain. You can recognize that you no longer need to make those choices the same way because you're not in that pain anymore.
That's what we call healing and learning.
Don't beat yourself up for not knowing what you didn't know when you didn't know it.
You know how you make up for crappy past choices?
By making better choices from where you are now.
You can let the past go, by simply accepting that you can do better in the future.
You can't change the past. It's done.
You can only change what you do from here and when you know better, you do better.
That's good enough.
Love to all.
Della