One interesting trend I've noticed as I've #ComeOut to more cis people is that, as soon as I mention I'm #trans, the other person will start talking about all the LGBTQ+ folks they know, or how great their company's DEI culture is, or that the way I identify doesn't impact their view of me. It's almost like a reflex at this point.
I get that they're just trying to demonstrate what a good ally they are, but it also kinda feels like they're avoiding the core issue that I'm suddenly a brand new person (to them at least). I guess a part of me expects them to be more curious or more willing to engage with my trans-ness instead of making it about themselves.
Still, I understand that it's a hard concept for most cis people to grasp, and this is probably just their way of processing it. I am grateful for their acceptance in whatever form that takes, and hopefully with more time and exposure, they'll be able to let their guard down and truly see me as I want to be seen. 
